Gemini

Gemini - The Sign of the Twins

The twins are the people of mood. In bad mood they frequently act in a silly, unreasonable way and regret about it later. The good qualities which people born under the sign Gemini possess are: easy going, cheerful, helpful, self confident and calm. 

Isn't great being Gemini?

Fact about Gemini zodiac:

Gemini are happy and bright people and can turn out to be remarkable companions you will never feel bored with a Gemini.

A Gemini woman and an Aquarius man love adventures. They do not like making plans and sticking to rules and regulations.

Beware Geminis won’t tolerate any sort of cheating or bad behavior.

Do not argue with a Gemini you will never win.

Love a Gemini and you will receive what you seek.

Gemini often have a good sense of humor and are rather charming.

Many Geminis are socialites and very good communicators.

A Gemini never want to complicate their life by going into details, be it in relationship, study or work.

A Gemini woman is more likely to tell you to move on and get over it.

Famous Geminis:

Marilyn Monroe - 1 June 1926

Mary Kate-Ashley Olsen - 13 June 1986

Angeline Jolie - 4 June 1975

Johnny Depp - 9 June 1963

Clint Eastwood - 31 May 1930

Colin Farrell - 31 May 1976

John F. Kennedy - 29 May 1917

Nicole Kidman - 20 June 1967

Kylie Minoque - 28 May 1968

The Olsen Twins

A Drama Queen

A drama queen is an overly dramatic person. Someone who turns something unimportant into a major deal. Someone who blows things way out of proportion when ever the chance is given. Or a girl who boo hoo's and ba ha's about all the shit in her life that's going on claiming "Too much drama" but in reality brings it all on herself.

Have you ever noticed how some people just seem to have so much drama in their lives? Or are you such as a drama queen?

Here are the reasons why a person may create so much drama in their life:

1. Boredom --- This is probably one of the main reasons why drama queens behave the way they do – they are simply bored! Creating drama and a scene makes them feel that something interesting is going to happen. There may be an underlying insecurity and their drama a distraction, so no one can ever see just how vulnerable and hopeless they feel.

2. Family background --- If the television soap operas and reality shows are anything to go by, most people have really challenging lives with a wide range of family and relationship conflicts, work problems and health issues.

3. Seeking sympathy --- This is a classic trait of a drama queen – just look at poor me! They are often seen looking very sad and down. Their story goes like this – I have had such a bad life, please feel sorry for me.

4. Manipulation of others --- Manipulation and taking advantage of others goes with the seeking of sympathy. “Now that I have got you feeling sorry for me, of course you must rescue me. And I am in so much trouble and pain, you just have to take care of me!”

5. Seeking attention --- Since drama queens usually have low self-esteem and believe that they will not be noticed, complaining about their lot is their best perceived way of getting that attention. Sadly it actually works the other way around – they end up making a negative impression.

6. Wanting to belong --- Along with the seeking of attention comes the desire for a sense of belonging. By behaving in a certain way they seek acceptance by their peer group, without realising that their behaviour actually alienates them. They might be accepted in a group simply because that’s the most bearable option and avoids any histrionics of being rejected.

7. Getting a high --- Finally, some people might even enjoy spreading drama as they get an adrenaline rush. They get their kicks by creating a furore all around them – and they genuinely enjoy it. Who needs drugs, sex and rock & roll when you can be a drama queen?!

Conclusion : Stop it, get bored and find some happiness.

The key thing is this – being a drama queen may be fun, but it’s not a happy place to be in.

Source:  
arvinddevalia.com

urbandictionary.com

Why Women Over 30 Are Sexy?

Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a hoot what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women.

Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know.

A woman over 30 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk or if you are acting like one!

** For all you 20-somethings who are reading, hope you know this is not meant to alienate you; the assumption here is that you've got the natural beauty of youth on your side. And actually think the guy friends have a few insights that apply generally to what's sexy, that would be interesting for women of all ages.

Source:

lifestyle.msn.com

celebrityzu.com

For the Broken Hearted

This is for the broken hearted. I know how you feel. Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever. You don't want to laugh, because you know it's not going to help, but you don't want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse. You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that, but you know soon your life is going to feel like it's falling apart too. You don't think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you, it feels impossible to stop loving them. And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That's the confusing part, you don't know why, you just do, and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most.

And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief, like you're getting happy again, but you know inside that you're just going into denial. And after a few more weeks, you're back to where you were an empty soul and teary eyes. You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it. And you can't help but to show it again. It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever. And no one understands how you feel, and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are, because it hasn't happened to them And even if it has, every broken heart is different. They don't know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now, so you learn that basically you are alone with all this.

And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down, right there, because you know you've had enough, the tears just instantly start flowing, and you're to the point where you don't care who see's. Because you've spent so many nights lying awake in bed, and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection. And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any, and it's not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place. After about a million tears have been cried, you finally pull yourself back together and keep going.

Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…” But you know it won't. And that’s the truth, it won’t. And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You're still hurt, but you've learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay.

So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them, and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you, screaming out, but for some reason they don't hear it. And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this...

 --Author Unknown--

Laughter is the Best Medicine

A good hearty laugh will make us feel good for a long time. That´s why we tell jokes. Laughter is the best medicine in your ordinary day too: with humor you may find a whole new way of looking at your life. Find solutions you might not have thought of before.

Sometimes we take life way too seriously. We have been taught to run through our lives with such a speed we have no time to laugh. When we are able to laugh, we are in touch with life´s goodness. We feel life has a purpose.

If you are down, laughing aloud may seem impossible. You may even look at laughing people and feel they are inconsiderate and loud. But if you are one of the laughing group, you´d never think that. You enjoy laughing too much

A personal tragedy - the loss of someone you love, for example, may cause this. Then you´d better not try to jump right from sadness to joy. You usually can´t. Still many people think they should be able to "snap out" of their blue mood. And when they can´t do it immediately, they feel guilty, maybe even panic. And just you try to laugh then...

Remember you are no machine, you are a living, delicate soul. You have a right not to laugh if you so feel. It is ok. Don't force yourself. Laughter will come when you are ready.

Loving and Losing

To love and to lose is one of the biggest tragedies in life, yet one fails to see the blessing in the loss. We lose for many reasons - a death, a divorce, a broken friendship and the end of a relationship. In that moment, we feel our life has come to an end. How are we to go on? A piece of your soul is taken leaving an empty hole in your heart.

The question of "WHY ME" repeats in your mind but as the beauty of time progresses, we see the answer. Loss makes us stronger and wiser. A loss helps us to appreciate even the smallest, insignificant things in life. Our hearts become softer and full of even more love than we had to begin with. A loss helps us to see that we can't do it alone, that we need faith and hope to get us through. We learn the mercy and grace of God.

When the grieving and the healing have taken their course, we are renewed, ready to begin a new chapter in our lives with a whole new outlook and attitude. Only then are we able to appreciate the lesson learned through that loss. One never forgets those we lost, but we do learn to let go. We learn to keep living even though we don't want to. We learn to treasure each moment and each person. In turn, losses make our lives a lot richer.

To love and lose is a tragedy, but it's not the end of our lives. It's part of our journey.

--Author Unknown--

The Mirror

The good you find in others, is in you too.

The faults you find in others, are your faults as well.

After all, to recognize something you must know it.

The possibilities you see in others are possible for you as well.

The beauty you see around you, is your beauty.

The world around you is a reflection, A mirror showing you the person you are.

To change your world, you must change yourself.

To blame and complain will only make matters worse.

Whatever you care about, is your responsibility.

What you see in others, shows you yourself.

See the best in others, and you will be your best. 

Give to others, and you give to yourself. 

Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful. 

Admire creativity, and you will be creative.

Love, and you will be loved. Seek to understand, and you will be understood.

Listen, and your voice will be heard. Teach, and you will learn.

Show your best face to the mirror, And you'll be happy with the face looking back at you.

 --Author Unknown--