What is Friend? How you recognized your Friend is real
and fake ? They’re lots of idea and hard discussion when we defined
Friend. They’re said Friend is the one who you can trust and tell your
secret or problem, one which cares for you in times of sorrow and joy.
But how can you tell if a friend is really a friend?
Are you being supported or renounced? When you go to your friend, and
they immediately say no, or act as if they can’t help you with whatever
situation has you down, would you call that a friend? True enough,
some individuals may not be in the greatest financial state to help,
but what about words of encouragement, or just being there for you to
be able to vent your frustrations? These two ideas involve no money,
and can help just as well. If you have a true friend, they immediately
try to place themselves in your shoes. They want to feel your pain and
be apart of the healing process.
Will they have your back if someone is talking negative things about
you, or do they join in? Have you ever experienced confronting someone
for saying negative things about you, only to find out your best friend
was involved, possibly starting the whole discussion? A real friend
would always back you up. They would never sit around and let others
talk about you in a negative way without you being there to defend
yourself. As a matter of fact, if they are loyal to you like they claim
to be, they would call you right in the mist of the negative talks,
put you on speaker phone and help you defend yourself.
Are
your secrets safe with your friend? You get to the point in your
friendship where your feel like you can tell your friend anything,
sometimes you can’t get it out fast enough! It’s great to be able to
tell good and bad news just to get it out of your system. But, when you
and your friend have a disagreement, or argument about something, do
they attack you with the most hurtful things you’ve shared with them? Do
they go and blurt your business to mutual friends or total strangers?
If they do, you might want to question them as a friend, and if they
ever really were your friend.
Are they happy or jealous
when you’ve achieved something great? When you go to your friend with
exciting news, they should be just as happy as you are, or at least try
to be. They should support you with congratulating words and positive.
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